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Chapter 2: To Divorce or Not?

From the Book: Divorce Amicably
This is an excerpt from Chapter 2 of  Divorce Amicably, a guide to navigating separation with dignity and cooperation.

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👤 Author: Kathleen Shack MS, LMFT

Excerpt from Chapter 2

One of the most difficult questions a person can face is: Should I get a divorce? This chapter explores the key emotional, financial, and legal considerations involved in making this life-changing decision.

For some, the choice is clear; for others, uncertainty can make it difficult to move forward. Discernment counseling—a short-term process designed to help couples determine whether to stay or separate—can be a useful tool when struggling with this question.

Key Takeaways from This Chapter

Should You Stay or Go?

Making the decision to divorce is rarely black and white. Factors such as emotional well-being, children, financial stability, and personal growth all play a role. While divorce may seem like the only solution, exploring alternative approaches (like marriage counseling or a trial separation) can sometimes help couples gain clarity.

If you are in a situation where conflict, resentment, or unhappiness dominate your daily life, it may be time to evaluate whether staying together is truly in the best interest of everyone involved.

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